The Surrogate's Journey
If you're considering becoming a surrogate, you're considering one of the most generous gifts one person can give to another. Here's what your journey would look like.
Eligibility & Application
Surrogates must meet specific requirements: have had a successful pregnancy, ≤2 C-sections, ages 20-40, U.S. citizen or permanent resident, BMI <32, live in a surrogacy-friendly state, and pass background and psychological screening. The application takes 30 minutes; we contact you within 3-5 days.
Screening Process
Screening includes: (1) medical records review from your last 2 deliveries, (2) IVF clinic medical clearance (blood tests, urine, ultrasound, physical), (3) licensed psychologist phone consultation, (4) background check. This is thorough — typically 4-8 weeks. Once cleared, you'll be matched.
Matching with Intended Parents
Matching is mutual — you review intended parents' profiles, they review yours, and you decide together. Match meetings happen via Zoom or WeChat first (many lead to in-person meetings in Southern California). The right match is built on shared values, communication style, and genuine connection.
Pregnancy & Support
Once medical clearance is complete and the legal contract is signed, you begin medications and embryo transfer (a 3-day trip to the IVF clinic). After embryo transfer, you'll have weekly monitoring for 10 weeks before transitioning to your local OB care. Throughout pregnancy, CBS provides 24/7 support — coordinator on call, transportation reimbursement, childcare reimbursement, regular communication with the intended parents.
Compensation & Benefits
Surrogates earn $65,000-$145,000 depending on experience, state, and whether you're carrying twins. This is structured as base compensation ($55,000+) plus milestone bonuses ($10k total across signing, heartbeat, monthly allowance). You also receive $500,000 life insurance, comprehensive health insurance during the journey, all travel and childcare expenses, and a $500 returning bonus for repeat journeys.
After the Birth
When the baby is born, you'll hand them to the intended parents (often with a brief emotional moment first). Many surrogates maintain contact with the family afterward — Christmas cards, photo updates, sometimes lifelong friendships. The decision about ongoing contact is mutual, between you and the intended parents.
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California Baby Surrogacy Team
Our team of coordinators, legal advisors, and care specialists brings 10+ years of surrogacy expertise.
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